Affair with a married woman - is it OK or not?

[Kaiowas]

"Please... before we go all the way... let me check one more time if you have gone green"

"pending"

-shrug-

"just gonna have to wait"

[sajidibby]

lmaooo

[Kaiowas]

and by the way Saint, we aint making light of your precarious position (well not too much)

but you have prob made the right decision buddy, she sounds like a right head wrecker

[the_icks]

In the end Sainty, you might just have to resort to a 'manual credit'

[arcticfox]

Originally Posted by the_icks

In the end Sainty, you might just have to resort to a 'manual credit'

very possibly, but I dont think we require screenshots in his case

[mozfadz]

Originally Posted by Mica

It's pretty clear tbh, if shes prepared to cheat on her husband who she has children with, what respect is she going to have for you?

Just what I was thinking

Originally Posted by claire80

ok people its about time you had a womans perspective on the situation !!!
first, a pregnent woman / woman just had baby hormones all over the place so who knows what she really wants , secondly you just dont mess with married people end of . if she is unhappy then she will leave husband then feel free to go for it but while she is married its a bad idea, if it all comes out (so to speak ) your gonna be stuck right in the middle she might come running to you for somewhere to live with her kids when hubby kicks her cheating ass out of there and then what was supposed to be a bit of fun all of a sudden gets a whole load worse and you got your self a ready made family and a bloke wanting to kick your ass..... of course thats just my opinion and what the hell do i know!

Yeah exactly!

[mattflower]

There's a song by Ginuwine "what's so different" which is basically what you just said, if someone cheats on who they're with now they'll do it to you too

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by mattflower

There's a song by Ginuwine "what's so different" which is basically what you just said, if someone cheats on who they're with now they'll do it to you too

Well, like i said it wouldn't be a serious thing - just a bit of fun - so it wouldn't have bothered me if she was playing around.

But like i said, won't be doing it...i mean her....probably. I think my best bet is to try to get her to introduce me to some of her lap dancing, burlesque loving buddies.

Manual crediting! STV!!!

[mattflower]

. . tell them who I am too

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by mattflower

. . tell them who I am too

I'll tell them you're getting married!!

[Bazza]

Are you going with freepay? In nine months time you might have a gift.

I swear that's the last one.

[bleeksy]

those jokes are hilarious, please tell us more

[djfonti]

I have only read the first post, however, under those incredibly difficult circumstances, having an affair is basically the only choice you have.

[bmh16]

Originally Posted by djfonti

I have only read the first post, however, under those incredibly difficult circumstances, having an affair is basically the only choice you have.

What are you on about? Only choice? lol

[Lexus11180]

This is an awesome topic.

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by Lexus11180

This is an awesome topic.

Not for me!! Fortunately she hasn't been pestering to meet since i got back from holiday and i'm hoping it stays that way as i'm not particularly strong willed when it comes to this sort of thing.

Just need to keep thinking "what would Tom Cruise do?"

[Praj07]

lol yeh i've only read a few of the posts but i had to say something! stay strong mate, don't fall for her! if you weigh up the advantages and disadvantages it really won't be worth it, what seems like a bit of fun at first might end up in a broken family! imagine if you had a wife and you'd just had a baby together and someone your wife went and cheated on you with some guy she went school with.. how devastated would you be? in my opinion, you should stay away, if u really wanna screw someone, adult friend finder is the way forward!

p.s I apolagise if someone has already said what I just said.

[djfonti]

Take one for the team Saint, I know it's hard but you owe it to the team. Contact her.

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by praj07

if u really wanna screw someone, adult friend finder is the way forward!

No it isn't! It's full of people like me trying to get people to sign up and earn them some money through their affiliate scheme!!

Or at least it used to be. Takes too much time and effort for little reward, rather do freebies.

[delude]

I haven't read all 5 pages but think because of your Job and the fact that people look to you for guidance,and maybe even as a role model you should 'stand firm*'.

(*Something an angry mother said to her girl at the airport when people were boarding, or shall I say fighting to get on, an aeroplane.)

EDIT: Also, I don't get what you're talking about 'school' for. I thought that you were talking like about years ago when you were a little kid. Could you clear it up for me please