eXceem - Affair with a married woman - is it OK or not?

Dim Tim · 17-07-07, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by mattflower

I was assuming that maybe the husband would be understanding enough to go to an Internet cafe and possibly sign up to his works address . . think thats allowed as it is 2 different people

by the time you'd explain all this to him, you'd have no teeth

mattflower · 17-07-07, 04:01 PM

I'd try . . . . stand there hanging out the back of his bird with a business card between my teeth

the_icks · 17-07-07, 04:33 PM

I shouldn't really laugh.. but that mental image!! shouting out 'I'm verifying!! I'm verifying!!'... gives a whole new meaning to STV!!

mattflower · 17-07-07, 04:36 PM

You want to make sure you use protection . . .you don't want to end up with an STV

the_icks · 17-07-07, 04:40 PM

or it going red!

Dim Tim · 17-07-07, 04:41 PM

LMFAO !!!

Bazza · 17-07-07, 04:42 PM

In this case it's probably better than green.

mattflower · 17-07-07, 04:43 PM

Hey we've all been there . . . .

the_saint · 17-07-07, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by mattflower

Hey we've all been there . . . .

Speak for yourself!!!

Haven't done anything yet, managed to delay meeting up until after i get back from my holiday - so i have three weeks before i have to worry about the temptress!!

It's true what people say though, i know absolutely nothing about her husband other than what he looks like and they could be really unhappy, but i think the fact they just had a baby makes that grasping at straws somewhat.

mattflower · 17-07-07, 05:55 PM

Maybe they're unhappy cos they had a baby . . .you never know

SuperPob · 17-07-07, 09:58 PM

No, stay away. Put it this way, if you were a married bloke and your wife that has had kids with you decided to have an affair with some other bloke, how would you feel not only towards your wife but towards the other bloke? Don't do to someone else that you wouldn't like doing to you.

It's ok to meet up for a drink but it should stay at that. At least drop in the bit about going green for you before she tries anything!

Hazuki · 17-07-07, 09:59 PM

If I was the husband in the situation I would blame you. The best decision would be to tell the husband but as you're a male that isn't really the easiest. Don't ruin another relationship..if she's a hoe then let her be a hoe with someone else, it's something you don't need.

SuperPob · 17-07-07, 10:06 PM

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Originally Posted by the_icks

I shouldn't really laugh.. but that mental image!! shouting out 'I'm verifying!! I'm verifying!!'... gives a whole new meaning to STV!!

Probably the funniest post I've seen on here to date. Thanks for that, I will add thanks for cheering me up too.

**claire80** · 17-07-07, 10:18 PM

ok people its about time you had a womans perspective on the situation !!!
first, a pregnent woman / woman just had baby hormones all over the place so who knows what she really wants , secondly you just dont mess with married people end of . if she is unhappy then she will leave husband then feel free to go for it but while she is married its a bad idea, if it all comes out (so to speak ) your gonna be stuck right in the middle she might come running to you for somewhere to live with her kids when hubby kicks her cheating ass out of there and then what was supposed to be a bit of fun all of a sudden gets a whole load worse and you got your self a ready made family and a bloke wanting to kick your ass..... of course thats just my opinion and what the hell do i know!

wolf · 17-07-07, 11:36 PM

dude, if shes got kids then staaay the hell away from the relationship thing, but, i dont really think theres any problem with you meeting up for a few drinks, it may just be that she just wants to catch up with you?

ravness · 18-07-07, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by the_icks

I shouldn't really laugh.. but that mental image!! shouting out 'I'm verifying!! I'm verifying!!'... gives a whole new meaning to STV!!

lol thats jokes! reminds me of my mate pulling some fit girl, that we all saw outside a club, but he started teling her about my-freebies.co.uk wen he ws pissed and she ws like

and she jus looked at him funny and walked off!

the_icks · 18-07-07, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by mattflower

Hey we've all been there . . . .

yeah, but some of us on the wrong side of the equation

mattflower · 18-07-07, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by SuperPob

Don't do to someone else that you wouldn't like doing to you.

Couldn't agree more (I know it's the oppposite of what I said earlier but what a great way of putting it)

the_saint · 18-07-07, 09:17 AM

I welcome the opinions, but just to re-iterate what i said about half way through this thread when i agreed that it would be best in order to keep my life nice and simple to not bother.

I will probably meet up when i get back from Hols but if she is as flirty as she is in her emails then it is going to be very awkward.

All the pictures she sent me previously were before the birth, she sent some more recent ones and she hasn't lost the baby weight yet - should make it easier to resist

!!

OK - bring on all the comments calling me a sexist pig for that one!!

mattflower · 18-07-07, 09:20 AM

Thats not sexist mate . . .it's matter of fact

I was going to make some other comments, but family forum and all that

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