Affair with a married woman - is it OK or not?

[ravness]

LOL! nice try mate but id rather u shagged her instead of gettin yo hands on the method

neways soz if i brought a harsh tone to this thread but i jus thought hold on we having a thread discussing whether or not you should shag a married woman....it just seems quite bizzarre but atleast i respect the fact that u thought about it...unlike many peeps!

anyways if ur one ugly mofo u may as well go for it because u wont get many chances in life!

but if ur not, then theres plenty more fish in the sea (that havent already been caught in on the hook)

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by ravness

LOL! nice try mate but id rather u shagged her instead of gettin yo hands on the method

The method over morals eh?? DOn't blame ya

neways soz if i brought a harsh tone to this thread but i jus thought hold on we having a thread discussing whether or not you should shag a married woman....it just seems quite bizzarre but atleast i respect the fact that u thought about it...unlike many peeps!

Say it how you feel, public forum and you can express your opinion as long as it respectful and not derogatory which you were so it's cool.

anyways if ur one ugly mofo u may as well go for it because u wont get many chances in life!

but if ur not, then theres plenty more fish in the sea (that havent already been caught in on the hook)

That's true, just this one is already interested and very little effort was and is required. I suppose laziness is no excuse.

[ravness]

random thought but dont ya think this chick should make a conga!

[TheDetox]

I haven't read all the post, cuz i cant be Asked and it's too long, but i's say.. if she really wants to cheat on her husband or just want's a rump she would go somewhere else if not you Saint, (No offense) ( I Hope

And she just had a baby, that's even worse, she's prob gone in the head if you ask me, or her husband is a twat..

and i you can't get out of saying no sorry or letting her down, just say u got a g-f or ya getting to know someone who ya like


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[Mica]

It's pretty clear tbh, if shes prepared to cheat on her husband who she has children with, what respect is she going to have for you?

You've turned her down once as you said, there must have been a reason, and think about it, if she wasn't hot, would you even be considering it? I reckon from what you've said, if she was butt ugly, this thread would not exist.


Comes down to the only thing positive about her you've posted is that she's hot. There will be one eventually where u forget about 'hot' or 'not'.

[Strider]

What I'd do is meet her for the drink, have a few and go to your place (or hers if you dare :P) - If she comes onto you then stop her and tell her that she's married and has two kids...is she sure she wants to do this?

If she says yes - Go for it! - IMO if you've both properly thought about it and want it, then theres no doubts!

PS: How long has it been since you left school? (If you dont mind me asking?)

[Dim Tim]

Well he's 25 so do the math

[the_icks]

Originally Posted by the_saint

But then again it is kinda icky.

thanks.. lol

having been the innocent party in one of these situations which led to a relationship breakdown.. (why my teenage daughters live with their mother and I have 2 sons with Wendy, I would say dont do it!!!

Plus with just having a kid it wont touch the sides!!

But really - dont!! you are far too hairy not to leave any incriminating evidence, and how do you know her husband isnt a member!! lol

[Monkeyegg]

Originally Posted by the_icks

Plus with just having a kid it wont touch the sides!!

Good point well made!!!!

I heard that baby hormones make women want to shag anything in trousers, so it's not her that wants to shag you, it's her womb.

From your previous posts it sounds like you are only considering getting involved with this woman for a fling and nothing serious. If she wanted the same and in the ideal world where no-one gets hurt that sounds like a win win situation at least for the two of you. Except we don't live in that world and usually, either one of you wants more, the hubby finds out, or both of you want more.

So it depends whether you want an easy life or a complicated one because these things usually end up getting complicated.

That's my girly view

[the_icks]

and dont forget Sainty that thse two great big dairy farms will return to their poached eggyness in no time at all!!

[moviedrome]

lmao @ the icks! You can't say that!

[the_icks]

but its true!!! so very true!

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by the_icks

Plus with just having a kid it wont touch the sides!!

That's a fair point though.

I'm 26 and she's 24 so 8 years since i left school (it had a sixth form college).

It would probably be approached as a fling, as i haven't seen her in 8 years its difficult to expect anything more.

I think you're all right though, it's likely to get messy and complicated in the long term.

Oh well, i'll probably never have a (former) lap dancing chasing after me again, but whatever!!!

If monkeyegg wants to send me an Ipod for doing the right thing that would help!

[Bazza]

I was just thinking there, what if she ever came across eXceem and found this thread!

[Landy]

Originally Posted by the_saint

(3) This one might be the one that swings people a certain direction
She has just (about 10 days ago) had her second child!! Part of why i put off meeting her was because if i was right i could just about handle a married woman flirting with me but not a PREGNANT maried woman.

That one's the clincher.

Mowing another guys lawn is wrong, but when the girl in question is hot and gagging for it, it takes a strong man to say no.

BUT

The woman has kids, it's unfair on them, also she's litteraly just dropped the last one, her head is bound to be all over the place. I can't work women out at the best of times, but when they've got all kinds of hormones and emotions raging through them they're very vulnerable and this could be seen as taking advantage of them.

Sounds like she's just dropped the 2nd kid, is now well and truly a proper mum and is worried that she's losing touch with her youth and is feeling unattractive, so by bedding you she'll be getting the ego boost she needs.

It's just wrong mate, but we are but men and the little fella is hard to say no to.

[the_saint]

Originally Posted by Bazza

I was just thinking there, what if she ever came across eXceem and found this thread!

Well funnily enough i was thinking of asking her to do a lovefilm on MP3 incentives but i think it might lead back to here!! Best not risk it!

[Landy]

the_icks is bang on about the baggy love tunnel and sagging melons, although it she just dropped the kid, her jugs are probably still swollen, but do you really want some mummy milk???

Probably be an awkward lay.